Thursday afternoon/Friday morning

I have to be very careful with the titles to my daily blog - Jo got all confused last night when she read yesterday's posting, which was titled Wednesday. It was, of course, written on Thursday but was about what happened the day before (as well as plans for the rest of the day). "Why didn't you tell me last night what Luca was like?" was the remark that greeted me when I got home late from golf in beautiful Tarland - I had only just been to see Luca and Gary that afternoon!

Anyway, this what he looked like the day after his laser surgery - he was playing very happily with Gary when I walked up the path and knocked on the front window. He's fine and the bruising that Gary talked about had gone and been replaced by large red spots - a little unsightly but not at all painful apparently:

He was in good form and really enjoyed playing with his new indoor slide - the only problem is that he hasn't learned yet how to get up the two steps himself and has to be lifted on and off - incessantly! When Gary eventually stopped, exhausted, Luca started to sob - a sound I haven't heard too often from him:

Incidentally, Gary told me he's going to the doctor next week to get prescribed with pills to stop smoking! He's tried everything else he reckons and they've all failed.

Talking about health, my medical on Tuesday was a little bit farcical when it came to the handheld machine they use to assess body fat %. The result came out at almost 30% - I said it can't be, so she did it again - with the same result! When I was then taken through to see the doctor, she spotted that I had apparently "shrunk" by 3cms since my last visit there - yes, the nurse had measured my height incorrectly and this affects the calculation! Another measurement followed and this time it came out at almost 27% - I still felt this was wrong, but decided just to leave it.

Yesterday, I decided to check my previous medical records, plus the assessments I get at Bannatyne's, who do the measurement using electrodes fitted to ankle and wrist. Four separate assessments at Bannatyne's, the most recent being just last month, consistently came out between 23% and 24%. Indeed Albyn's previous medical report came out at 23.3%. Something wrong here, I think.

Wednesday midweek

Just missed Carole on the phone yesterday but spoke to Gary - and I've arranged to go out to Inverurie this afternoon on my way back from Fraserburgh - he's off work babysitting Luca.

Golf last night - a little damp, but not too bad - the rain from the south finally arrived and thankfully has passed through again overnight. Shot a net 69 in the 1st round proper of the Riverston Cup and I'm in the lead - can't wait until the 2nd and final round tomorrow (Friday).

Got home and spoke to Barry and then Dawn. Looks like they are going to try to take him to Erskine on Monday. I thought long and hard about whether I should be there too, but then remembered what it was like the last time we were all there - Dad could sense something was going on, but he wasn't sure what - and he ended up going in to his shell and went to bed and wouldn't get up again.

Barry and Dawn agree and so they will try themselves on Monday - it all depends if it's a good day or a bad day for Dad. Dawn made an interesting comment last night about Dad going in to Erskine - she agreed it was better for his safety, but would he be happy? She said he seems quite content just now - the dementia is getting worse and he just sits and laughs rather than chats now. So what's right? Is the priority now his safety or his happiness? Wish I knew the answer.

After Inverurie this afternoon, I'm heading to Tarland for a Deeside league match - lovely place and I'm looking forward to playing there again.

Tuesday/Wednesday

Haven't had a chance to speak to Gary or Carole yet, but Jo got a brief text from Gary last evening to say that Luca was a bit bruised and subdued after the anaesthetic and the procedure - hope he's OK - we'll find out more tonight.

I went for my company medical this morning - it's supposed to be annual but it's almost 2 years since I was there. I'll get the full report in due course, but Dr. Morton has already advised me that it would be a good idea to see the cardiologist again as it's been over 3 years now. She's not an expert, but she knows my heart rhythm is still irregular - she's not sure if it's flutter or atrial fibrillation - she'll leave that to the cardiologist - but she is strongly suggesting the use of warfarin again. I told her about my Mum's bad experience with this and how I really wanted to avoid this if possible. The last time I saw Steve Walton after the failed cardioversion attempts, he wasn't recommending that I undergo the same ablation procedure as Tony Blair had - he wasn't happy to recommend it at that stage, but things have moved on and that might be a possibility for me now. We'll see - I'm not ruling anything out at this stage.

Monday

Another beautiful day here although the downside is that I had to rush out and get hayfever medication - I couldn't make up my mind if I had a head cold or it was just allergies. Everything's growing so quickly (at last) and there's lots of pollens around - the ivy on our house has really started to sprout:

You'll note that Ross' old beat-up Saab convertible is still rusting away in our drive - hoped it would have been gone by now but I guess I'll have to be patient - again!

We spoke to Lucy last night for a couple of hours on Skype using the webcams - the quality of image was pretty good and there was no jarring or juddering nor delay - her lips were synched with her voice. It was Memorial Day weekend in the States and it's a big national holiday that typically signifies the start of summer. The boys were their usual boisterous selves - I threatened to cut back our stay in USA a bit more if they were going to be like that all the time we were there! Anyway - Kelly and Craig and Gary and Carole - not to mention Barry & Helen and Dawn & John - now all need to download Skype (free) and open an account (also free) so that we can all share webcams. This was a snapshot I took last night as Lucy was adjusting her settings:

Anyway, happy 35th birthday to Lucy today - no old embarrassing photos from her childhood - I'll save those for another day - just one of my favourite photos from our 2000 trip to USA:

Midweek to weekend - Luca arrives

Starting with Saturday when Gary rang our doorbell before 8:00 am - Carole was away on a hen party weekend and Gary had dropped her at the station then headed straight for Banchory. I think Gary only came over for a rest - he put Luca down to sleep for over 2 hours then when Luca awoke, Gary fell asleep on the couch for another 2 hours!

Luca's lunch consisted of Jo's soup, which as everyone knows, can be a little salty - I like it, but it's not to everyone's taste - and each time he was fed a spoonful, he pulled a face - that was until I switched the camera on when he suddenly stopped doing it:

I escaped to golf for a few hours - had another good round and got my handicap cut yet again - and, what's more, we had Betty Stogs ale from Skinner's in Cornwall on in the golf club again - the weather was nice enough to sit and sup it on the balcony again.

We had good fun watching the Champions League final on Wednesday in our house - hope Jo didn't mind the noise too much as Gary, Colin, Dave and I enjoyed a few beers in front of the plasma screen. Gary (Grant)'s only complaint was that I'd forgotten to get the crisps in to soak up the beer - he had to make do with Ryvita and oatcakes!

Thursday was a charity golf outing at Cruden Bay (won another prize for nearest the pin!) and Friday afternoon was a tie at Torphins. This time of year is crazy for golf with all the ties etc - but it only lasts a couple of weeks each year so I shouldn't complain about my sore knees and hips - just get on with it - after all it's only 4 weeks now until the Summer Solstice - and then it's all downhill!

Finished my audiobook of Philip Roth's American Pastoral - more observational than dramatic - but it evoked vivid images from post war America through the '50's, 60's and 70's mostly - eras that made profound impressions on us growing up. I was lucky enough to miss out (just) on conscription but Britain - and indeed Europe - suffered for a long while after the war with food shortages and rationing etc., whilst America moved in to an era of prosperity that we could only dream of. We could only watch and wonder at American films, music and TV - the so called Western (mostly cowboys and "Indians") movies were by far the most popular and the images of the American West were particularly dramatic and it was great to visit places like Arizona in recent years and see the red rock images and scenery that we had watched in the '50's and '60's.

My long hours in the car up and down to Fraserburgh are lightened by music and audiobooks on my mp3 player and one of my weekly treats is to listen to Sounds of the Sixties which I record from Radio Two every Saturday morning (when I'm out golfing). Recently I've also been recording Bob Dylan's Theme Time Radio Hour (Thursday nights at 11) - and this, too, is very evocative of things we heard about and grew up with from USA. Recent themes have been train songs (including childhood nuggets like Casey Jones) - going through songs from the American states and cities - from Chatanooga to Missouri. Last week, the theme was Tennessee - Memphis, Nashville etc.

I guess I had forgotten what a huge influence America had on us as we were growing up - it wasn't until the Beatles and Stones came along in '63, '64 that the trend was reversed and Britain actually was able for the first time to export music back to the States - much of it hugely derivative at first, but ultimately more creative. Barring a few exceptions, we've never had quite the same success with our film industry as we did with music.

Ah well, Sunday evening - it's been a lovely day - I actually had lunch out in the back for the first time this year. I've been trying to upload this video of Luca for a few hours now - I blame Ross and his online games, but he says it's the fault of our ISP. Hope I manage to get it done before I go to bed tonight - but if you see the text only, don't be surprised - I'll try again with the video from work tomorrow.